If you have male orgasmic disorder, which is the inability to orgasm even with sexual stimulation, then you probably are feeling embarrassed and inadequate. Even if you just have severely delayed orgasms it can really hinder your sex life which leads to feelings of low self esteem and general unhappiness with your sex life. Although this condition if found more commonly in women, many men are going through the same thing but have not come forward to speak to their doctor simply because they are embarrassed, and because there does not seem to be much concern for this.
If this sounds like something you may have, then the best advice is to seek the help of a medical professional such as your doctor or a sex therapist. They are often the best people to know if this is what is happening to you, and what you can do about it. To be diagnosed with male orgasmic disorder you must have this constantly, and not just a time or two here and there. The doctor will also look to see if it happens only when you are having sex or when you are masturbating as well. Unfortunately, doctors only see this as a disorder if it is causing you stress or embarrassment. Otherwise, for some reason, this disorder is almost ignored as something a man just "goes through."
The causes can range from psychological to physiological. The way to fix this problem is to decide which of these is the reason for your orgasmic disorder. It could be caused by disease such as multiple sclerosis, hyperthyroidism, stroke, or Cushing's syndrome. It also could be caused by medication that you are taking such as high blood pressure medication or antidepressants. Most commonly though male orgasmic disorder is caused by psychological reasons such as stress, exhaustion, fear, or so many others. Therapy with a registered sex therapist is definitely your best course of action if this is the case.
Also you may want to consider making a few lifestyle changes. By quitting drinking and smoking it may may help with your problem. You may want to exercise more and become healthier. Also, by doing Yoga or Pilates you can remove any stress in your life that may also be a factor. There are many ways to change this but first you have to be willing to do the work. You can also get a boost in your orgasms throughout all natural supplements which are made up of vitamins, minerals, and herbal ingredients to increase your stamina and strength of your orgasms. Just make sure to consult your doctor before trying anything like this.
You do not have to live your life without orgasms. As long as you get the help you need, you will feel better and be able to have sex and actually enjoy it.