Sexual Reflexology moves reflexology beyond the realm of foot massage and into the realm of sexuality. It is based on the principle of using our sexual reflex points in lovemaking to heal the rest of our body. Our sexual organs are the most powerful reflex points on the body. The whole body provides the sexual organs with energy so when the sexual organs are stimulated they in turn stimulate and energize the entire body. In this way, sexual intercourse is a form of ecstatic acupressure. This means that sexual intercourse can have deep healing properties when applied intentionally and precisely.
In the pelvis are a vast number of nerve endings and channels for the veins and arteries as well as tissues that communicate with every square inch of the body. All the major acupuncture meridians that carry energy between the body and the vital organs pass through this area. Therefore, if it is blocked or weakened, as is the case with people who are sexually impoverished, then energy will leak and the organs and brain will suffer. When the pelvic and sexual organs are stimulated and strengthened through, what is known as “sex-ercises” it can charge the brain with energy, increase circulation, stimulate nerve flow, strengthen the urogenital diaphragm and tonify the energy of the sexual organs making you healthier and even more sexy.
On the other hand sexual energy can be depleted or wasted needlessly through careless and unconscious sex, improper care of the sexual organs and body, as well as practices such as men’s constant ejaculation and the imbalance in the female menstruation cycle. This means that it is important that men learn how to regulate and control ejaculation and women work on balancing the female cycle.
For those men who masturbate frequently and ejaculate wasting their sperm, (the pleasure is momentary) they loose their source of vital energy not allowing the water of life to spread to the rest of the body. Each ejaculation involves the loss of half an ounce of semen. According to the American Cancer Society, prostate cancer is the #1 cancer diagnoses for men. At least 80% of all men can expect to experience some degree of prostate trouble during their lives. Studies show that one of the causes of prostate problems is sexual excess. When a man becomes sexually excited, either by thinking about sex or by physical contact, all the pelvic reproductive organs, including the prostate, become congested with blood. When the prostate is continually subjected to this engorgement, it becomes inflamed and enlarged. This impedes the flow of urine and over time creates an unhealthy environment for disease.
Women, on the other hand, commonly believe that they can not avoid premenstrual symptoms and losses of mucus and blood which by the way contains vital substances such as iodine, lecithin, calcium, phosphorus, iron and sex hormones. The truth is ovulation need not be accompanied by painful and prolonged menstruation. Hemorrhage or rupture of blood-vessels is unnatural and not normal contrary to popular belief. Leucorrhea (discharge of white mucous material from the vagina; often an indication of infection) and excessive menstrual bleeding result from an inflammatory condition of the mucus membrane of the uterus. Frequent sex (especially if it began at an early age) can lead to various other genital complaints, which sometimes assume a malignant form, including cervical cancer.
I am frequently interrogated about my over all energy and essence by men, in particular, who are drawn to me because they sense a great deal of energy that they sometimes describe as incredible or magnetic, radiant, compelling and most times sexy. What they feel and sense is my over all sexual energy, my central vitality.
As a Holistic Health Practitioner, over the years I’ve been able to associate the overall health of my clients with their sexuality. When someone’s sexual organs are depleted or blocked, I can sense it in the fading condition of their hair, skin, eyes, lumbar spine, and often their mood and over all energy field.
There is one way of looking at sex that is negative, shameful and narrow. Then there’s another way that when done properly can take you all the way to infinity. In the book Sexual Reflexology, Mantak Chia illustrates the step-by-step process of maintaining Ejaculation and Menstruation Cycle Management while sharing 15 healing positions: 8 for men and 7 for women. These sexual healing positions use the distinct reflexology areas of the penis and vagina to target specific health issues during love making. Each position puts pressure on different parts of the sexual organs, relative to which part of the body needs to be healed. Through this stimulation related organs are rejuvenated and the orgasmic energy is guided up to the specific organs. These techniques have been tested and proved over millennia.
So if you’re one who holds sex as a dirty act or refuses to engage based on your learned fears you may want to rethink this beautiful, pleasurable and power act in which every living creature came through. For it is the pathway that we can return to for renewed life!