Once upon a time there weren’t very many people on planet Earth. Now there’s seven billion. That’s a lot. Clearly, people are pretty good at making other people. This means people are pretty good at having sex. You might say that having sex with each other is one of the most natural things a person could do.
There’s even plenty of scientific evidence that shows the whole reason for our developing language is to make it easier for guys to get laid. Now, this seems like some crazy marketing gimmick, but guys who could communicate better were better at finding partners.
This meant that over time, having good communication skills was evolutionarily beneficial. So the development of language was, at least in part, propelled to its current levels by guys who used language to get laid.
What does all this mean? That getting laid is natural. Meeting girls, talking to them, and getting them into bed is natural. You don’t really need to learn any special skills of seduction or persuasion.
You’ve just got to undo those fears you may have. You need to reclaim your natural heritage of being able to walk up to any girl and start talking to her like she was one of your buddies.
How do you do this? By taking the time to imagine success. When you program your brain for success, it will start to expect it. Like buying a green car, and then suddenly noticing that there are green cars everywhere.
If you are fearful, your brain will naturally move toward feelings of fear. But when you practice success, in your imagination, this will destroy those fears, and make talking to girls seem natural.
There’s plenty of data to back this up. Basketball players who only imagined practicing free throws improve their actual free throws. World class athletes commonly practice in their minds.
When you practice seduction in your mind, it will become natural. Most guys focus on outer game. They memorize language patterns, opener, gambits and other ways to impress her. But they neglect inner game.
The secret to success is that with strong enough inner game, outer game will take care of itself. The more you spend time imagining success, the sooner success will come. All it takes is ten or twenty minutes a day of focused imagination.
Think about walking up to girls, seeing them smile, and walking away with their phone numbers and a good feeling. The more you practice this in your mind, the sooner it will happen in the outside world.