Rhinoplasty – Five Things To Know Before Your "Nose Job"

Everyone deserves to have the nose that they want. But shouldn’t it be the nose that their face wants too? Every face has certain proportions and dimensions that often make the nose stand out because it doesn’t quite fit – this is what usually drives one to seek a rhinoplasty. But exchanging one nose that doesn’t match nicely with the face for a “prettier” nose but which still doesn’t really match isn’t such a good idea. The best rhinoplasties result in a nose that looks nicer and fits better. A new nose which makes you still look like you – only better and in better overall proportion to your face. A nose that doesn’t scream out “I had surgery” because it is actually in better harmony with your face than the nose you had beforehand.

Generally, this will be a nose that has been sculpted to have improved aesthetics but doesn’t look like it is a nose which should belong to someone else. Do you really want to hear “Hey, nice nose job!” or would you prefer “You look nice – what did you do?”? Women will often realize during their consultation that the new characteristics they seek for their nose are really all about making their nose look more feminine. Unfortunately, it seems that many women have inherited a male-like nose (i.e. it looks more like Dad’s than Mom’s!). For a woman, the sculpting of the nose to look more feminine is another important strategy to bring it more into alignment with the rest of the face. For a man, the ideal reshaping of the nose will simultaneously maintain (or assert) its masculinity.

A “nose job” procedure sounds like it should hurt, but it really doesn’t. Really! Most patients believe that a rhinoplasty has got to be a painful procedure. They delay their consultation while dreading a recovery they actually know very little about. The truth is that a rhinoplasty is one of the least uncomfortable procedures in all of plastic surgery! Patients frequently seem surprised by this fact but quickly learn after their procedure that they truly have very little discomfort.

Stuffiness of the nose can be around for a while as the inside of the nose swells even more than what you might see on the outside but this is more “annoying” than it is painful. Speaking of which, due to advances in rhinoplasty techniques, the bruising and swelling is typically far less than what most people expect too. In under a week, most of the tell-tale signs that a procedure was performed will be gone – and it is likely that you will still have most of your pain pills left!

Do not watch any videos of a rhinoplasty or you will never have it done. Even though it doesn’t really hurt all that much afterward, it is probably wise for you to not watch any explicit videos of this procedure and wrongfully conclude otherwise. Watching things that you really weren’t meant to watch might dissuade you from following up on your dream…and for all the wrong reasons. The surgical techniques which are used, while sophisticated and artistic, do involve some maneuvers that might make you cringe a bit here and there.

For that matter, the same could probably be said for almost every surgical operation that there is, not just this one. Psychologically, patients who expect more pain and obsess about it (especially after watching things that are best left unwatched) will literally talk themselves into having more pain. Imagine – the reason it hurts more and your worst fears seem to be coming true are simply because you believed that they would. An old saying says that while your doctor cannot talk you out of your pain, you can certainly talk yourself into it!

“Packing” is essentially a thing of the past. This is another one of those still common but totally misplaced fears patients often express about a rhinoplasty. The idea of having the nose “packed” with about 8 yards of gauze per nostril that days later has to be removed with all the subtlety of starting a lawnmower – that would scare anybody. This all goes back to the old days, some 20 years ago or more, where packing of the nose after a rhinoplasty was routine.

The packing removal was literally the most painful part of the recovery. Modern plastic surgeons questioned the science behind this standard routine and for the most part it has been abandoned. For a cosmetic rhinoplasty, many plastic surgeons will use a small piece of a non-adherent type of packing that is removed shortly after your procedure, before you go home, not left in for days. More complex nasal procedures, reconstructions, or those involving the sinuses might require packing left in for longer.

Why does it seem like so many of the celebrities have their noses done and “re-done”? About 10% of patients having rhinoplasties will ultimately need or want at least some type of touch-up for their nose. This statistic has held true for many years. Why? Some patients will heal or scar (yes, there is scar tissue which can form under or in the skin in unkind ways) such that the result is not as good as it should have been and a revision, not a total overhaul, will be of benefit. Sometimes parts of the cartilage framework that support the nose will twist or bend in a wayward way as it recovers.

Unexpected and unpredicted, but in need of some minor surgical modification to be righted. A surgical solution is not always needed though – a good number of imperfections can be corrected with special injectable treatments in quick fashion in the office. It is actually only a small percentage of patients who wanted their nose to look a certain way and just didn’t get it, or worse. Unfortunately, it is somewhat of a standard Hollywood happenstance that a result is deemed good today, but then needs to go in a whole new and more aggressive direction next year. This sort of thing is often seen with breast implants and face lifts as well.

Charlotte’s Web Review

When Opposites Work Together

The concept of “Yin and Yang” originated in ancient China. The concept describes two main opposing but complementary forces or principles that are found in objects and processes in the universe. Yin is the darker element, often related to the feminine aspect, and the night. Yang, on the other hand, is associated with the brighter element the masculine aspect, and also with the day (Wikipedia). Psychologist William Indick argues that in some stories, occasionally, “two characters are as different as day and night…yet [they] complement each other” (Indick, Psychology 117). In the story Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White, Charlotte and Templeton complement each other and work together to save Wilbur’s life.

Charlotte and Templeton differ from each other physically. Charlotte is a female spider or “yin,” while Templeton is a male rat or the “yang” counterpart. The spider describes herself as a trapper, and she loves drinking the blood of the animals she traps (White 39). In addition, Wilbur thinks that his new friend -Charlotte- is “fierce, brutal, scheming, and bloodthirsty” (41). In contrast, Templeton explains that he “prefers to spend his time eating [leftovers] gnawing, spying, and hiding…I am a glutton” (29). Charlotte believes that “a rat is a rat” (47). But these physical characteristics can not be completely related to the characters’ personalities.

In the story, Charlotte is not only an ordinary spider, but a mother figure to Wilbur. E.V. White employs the “Archetype of a mother” as part of Charlotte’s personality. Dr. Indick explains that archetypes are shared associations and images, ideas, or significant unconscious figures to which all people can relate (Indick, Psychology 113-114). Charlotte is a caring and loving “mother” to Wilbur. When Wilbur discovers that by the end of the year he is going to be killed, he starts screaming in desperation and asks for help. As a mother will do, Charlotte worries and promises Wilbur to develop a plan to save him from the ax (51). Also, Wilbur acts like a child and from time to time asks Charlotte to tell him a story. So the spider tells Wilbur the story of her beautiful cousin, who managed to spin a web across a small stream. At the end of Charlotte’s story Wilbur asks her to sing him a song, and she sings a song like a loving mother to her dearest son (101-104).

Despite Charlotte’s physical appearance, she is also a teacher mentor to Wilbur. Dr. Indick argues that the mentor archetype is a very common figure in stories, myths and movies. Also, a teacher mentor will be a wise and inspirational figure who has taught and guided students. Moreover, “the teacher sees his students as emerging heroes, overcoming their own weaknesses under his tutelage…and the victories of his students become victories of his own” (Indick, Movies 53-54). Charlotte fulfils the teacher mentor archetype because she teacher her student a variety of subjects for example, “One afternoon, Wilbur says to Charlotte that she has awfully hairy legs. The Charlotte goes on explaining him that her legs are hairy for a good reason, [spins webs] and that her legs are divided in seven sections -the coax, the trochanter, the femur, the patella, the tibia, the metatarsus and the tarsus” (55). The teacher also helps her student develop his vocabulary, Wilbur is always asking for the meaning of a word like “What does salutations mean? What does sedentary mean? Or what does gullible mean? (35,61,67). On the other hand, towards the end of the story, Wilbur wins a prize on the fair and asks Charlotte why she is so quiet. Charlotte responds that she is a little tired, but she feels peaceful, because Wilbur’s success in the ring, to a small degree, was her success (163). Therefore, after all her hard work and after Wilbur overcomes his weaknesses, the teacher feels the student’s success as her won success.

Like Yin and Yang, Templeton’s personality is the exact opposite of Charlotte’s personality.

To begin with, he does behave like an uninterested parent to a child. At the beginning of the story, Wilbur is sad and bored and asks Templeton to talk to him and to play with him. But the rat disappoints Wilbur because, unlike a loving father, Templeton does not want to be with him and says “I never do those things if I can avoid them” (29). Templeton’s behavior can be explained by one of Erickson’s psychosocial stages of identity crisis; the trust versus mistrust stage. Based on this stage, Dr. Indick explained that a dubious character (like Templeton) is reluctant to commit himself to a heroic cause, because he is unable to trust the good people who need his help (Indick, Psychology 80). In order to resolve the mistrust conflict, the character has to give a “leap of faith,” which means that he has to let his guard down and give himself over to someone else. The leap of faith is not a great transformation, is just a step where the character moves to a more proactive state to help someone (Indick, Psychology 81).

Charlotte and Templeton are as different as day and night. Charlotte is caring, loving, trustworthy, and loyal, while Templeton is the opposite because he is not trusted, he ” has no morals, no conscience, no scruples, no consideration, no decency, no milk of rodent kindness, no compunctions, no higher feeling, no friendliness, no anything” (45-46). In addition, Templeton is selfish. Charlotte says to the oldest sheep that she is not sure Templeton will be willing to help them because “he is always looking out for himself, never thinking of the other fellow” (89).

Therefore, Templeton is neither a parent or teacher figure nor a friend to Wilbur or anyone.

Even though Templeton is selfish and untrustworthy, he takes his “leap of faith” when he cooperates with Charlotte and the rest to save Wilbur. Charlotte needs some new words to write them in her web, so the old sheep orders Templeton to bring a clipping from a magazine (90-91). Charlotte can not do the errand herself, because of her physical limitations. But Templeton is a rat; he has more physical possibilities to perform the job because he comes and goes as he pleases, unlike the rest of the animals. Although Templeton refuses to do the job in the first place, after a short explanation from the old sheep, he agrees to help and says, “I’m making a trip to the dump tomorrow afternoon. I’ll bring back a magazine clipping if I can find one.” Later, Templeton finds an advertisement with the words ‘With New Radiant Action’ and together, as Yin and Yang, (Templeton and Charlotte) study the soap ad (97). Even though Templeton does not like to be treated as a “messenger boy,” he looks around in the fair and brings Charlotte the last word she writes in her web: “Humble” (139-140). At the end of the story, without being asked, Templeton also bits Wilbur’s tail when he faints in front of all the people, and he is also easily persuaded to bring Wilbur Charlotte’s egg sac (168-169). So Templeton moves to a more active state, and helps Wilbur.

Regardless of the characters’ differences, they unite their abilities and capacities to work together and at the end, Wilbur is safe. Jane Garry and Hasan El-Shamy explain that:

A critical facet of the concept of opposites is the perceived inherent union between opposites constitutes a new affective entity that is greater than mere elaboration of either component… In most general terms, the union refers to the idea that opposites attract and combine to make up a whole greater than the sum of the opposing parts…(Garry and El-Shamy 482)

Charlotte and Templeton are like day and night. Their personalities differ substantially. The spider is a mother, a teacher, and a friend to Wilbur. On the other hand, the rat is a selfish, inconsiderate and insensitive character. However, these two personalities complement each other, they wok together to save Wilbur form death. Charlotte develops a plan and Templeton helps her and brings the words she needs. They unite their talents, and like Yin and Yang form one strong whole, which effectively accomplish an unselfish task: to save Wilbur’s life.

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Cancer Of The Bladder

Bladder cancer is a tumor within the bladder, usually starting with the cells lining the bladder walls. These abnormal cells multiply without control. The tumor may or may not be malignant depending on the invasiveness of the type of cancer involved. The cause of bladder cancer is uncertain as with most types of cancer. Studies have shown that several risk factors may contribute to the development of bladder cancer.

About 25 percent of bladder cancer can be attributed to the exposure to cancer-causing chemicals or carcinogens in the workplace. The chemicals that belong to the Arylamines and Benzidine families are considered the most responsible. Arylamines exposure used to be very high in Dye, Rubber, Aluminum, Leather industry workers along with truck drivers and pesticide applicators but most arylamines usage has been reduced in the workplace because of government regulation.

Radiation therapy for women with cervical cancer have an increased risk of developing bladder cancer. Certain drugs are known to result in a high risk factor to developing bladder cancer such as chemotherapy agent cyclophosphamide and the analgesic phenacetin. Repeated or chronic bladder infections may also lead to the type of cancer called squamous cell bladder cancer. This type of bladder cancer is very slow growing and as with all cancers, early detection can lead to a higher cure rate.

According to the TNM (tumor, lymph node, and metastases) classification system the cancer stage is classified by the location, size and aggressiveness . Recently the TNM staging system has become very popular with the medical industry to describe all types of cancer. The TNM staging system is divided into 5 main stages along with several sub stages using the following scale.

Stage 0 – Tumors limited to the bladder lining but do not extend through the bladder wall lining.

Stage 1 – Tumors involve the layer beyond the lining of the bladder and beyond but do not involve the muscles of the bladder.

Stage 2 – Tumors involve the muscles in the bladder.

Stage 3 – Tumors involve the fatty tissue surrounding the bladder, the prostate gland, the vagina or uterus.

Stage 4 – Tumors have spread into the lymph nodes or other areas of the body such as the liver, lungs and bones.

The following symptoms of bladder cancer can also be associated with non-cancerous conditions. Nerveless any symptom of a suspicious nature should be always evaluated by a trained urologist. Early detection is critical in the successful outcome of all cancer treatments.

A medical professional should always be consulted if you have blood in the urine or if the urine becomes cloudy. The color of ones urine does give great insight into the internal condition of the urinary track.

Urinary frequency, increased frequency in the need to urinate. This could also be sign of a bladder infection called cystitis, bladder irritation called interstitial cystitis, or from a kidney stone.

Painful urination could also be caused by a bladder infection, kidney stone or another serious problem.

Urinary urgency just after using the restroom and when you do you only urinate small amounts. Could be a bladder infection called cystitis, bladder irritation called interstitial cystitis, or from a kidney stone.

Urinary incontinence. Some women report this symptom after childbirth and may be caused from a weakness in the bladder due to childbirth or ageing. This weakness is called stress incontinence. Suggested reading the kegel exercise and vaginal weight training.

Common Vitamins and over the counter products can help with treating Bladder problems such as Vitamin A, Cranberry Juice, and L-cysteine.

Vitamin A deficiency may increase the risk of cancers of the lung, larynx, bladder, esophagus, stomach, colon, rectum and prostate.

Cranberry Juice may also help prevent kidney and bladder infections. If you are taking COUMADIN then check with your doctor before using cranberry.

L-cysteine is another immune system stimulant but should always be taken in conjunction with Vitamin C to reduce the risk of developing stone formation in the kidneys and bladder.

Always consult your doctor before using this information.

This Article is nutritional in nature and is not to be construed as medical advice.

I Have Foot Drop – Home Remedies and Treatment Options

1.) Are you longing for the days when you could walk without a limp?

2.) Do you wish you could do something about this problem?

1.) Introduction

Per the Mayo Clinic, foot drop is not a disease, but rather a general term for “difficulty lifting the front part of the foot”. Moreover, they indicate that “foot drop is a sign of an underlying neurological, muscular or anatomical problem.”

Sometimes foot drop is temporary. In other cases, foot drop is permanent. If you have foot drop, you may need to wear a brace on your ankle and foot to hold your foot in a normal position.

So now what?

You may have already have wondered to yourself… “will this every go away”? Will I have do deal with this situation my whole life? – These are honest questions and we can understand your concern if you have trouble with foot drop or any other walking problem.

So the time for feeling sorry is done. The next question is, “how do I face foot drop and deal with this condition?” Now we are getting somewhere. There are some different treatment options out there that can really help people with foot drop. Some can help you walk better again naturally, but there are no guarantees with this method. Other, very effective treatment options include the use of a brace called an AFO, or even the WalkAide system.

2.) At Home Remedies

Rest is the old fashion way of healing our bodies. As you already know, rest can take you only so far. In the end, the potential to heal has to be there. Sometimes the potential is there, and other times it is not. For example, if you injured your lower back and expect it to heal, then the sciatica you are feeling right now and resulting foot drop may dissipate with time.

3.) Effective Treatment Options, That Do Not Include Surgery

The AFO that is mentioned above is a very helpful treatment option that can definitely help people walk better again. Hands down. It is typically made of low profile plastic and fits into a shoe. This brace is provided by a brace specialist, called an orthotist. These individuals can either give you a custom made AFO or an off the shelf version. Not only that, they can help you facilitate a claim to your health insurance, on your behalf. This means that you might not have to pay a cent out of your own pocket (depending on your coverage levels).

Another system called the WalkAide is getting a lot of attention in the medical community. It is an FDA approved device that helps people with drop foot, by stimulating your peroneal nerve with impulses. It can bring up your foot in this way, as you walk. Not everyone is a candidate for this device but many people are.

Note: This is health information. Although it is good information, it is always a good idea for an individual to talk with their local, licensed orthotist when it comes to getting medical advice on bracing and the WalkAide.

Five Things You Must Have to Succeed As an Entrepreneur When Most People Fail

It is a fact that 97% of all entrepreneurs fail and nine out of ten businesses fail before reaching the three year mark. What will make you different? What will give you the edge? How will you succeed when those around you fail?

There are five basic steps which will lead you to success.

1. You must have a burning desire to succeed. Decide now to succeed no matter what it takes and your success is inevitable. You must never give up. If your reason for success is big enough it will drive you forward even when everything seems hopeless and you feel like quitting.

2. You must have a plan, not just an idea in your head, a real written step by step plan which details where you are now, where you will be in a year, five years and ten years from now and what steps you will take to get there.

3. You need a mentor. The fastest way to get what you want is to find someone who already has it and copy what they do. Model their thoughts, beliefs, and actions and you will get the same results they have. This is a law of nature. It is called the law of cause and effect. If you do a certain thing, you will get a certain result. If you do exactly what successful people do, you will also be successful.

4. You need a system. All successful businesses use systems that deliver duplicable results. If you get the results you want occasionally but can’t duplicate it, you don’t have a business. A business must be able to produce the same results over and over, that is what produces continuing profits.

5. You must have a team. Business is a team sport. If you try to do everything yourself, you will fail. No one is good at everything. Develop the talents and strengths that you have. Spend as much time as possible doing the profit producing tasks you are best at. Find others to do the things that you are not good at, and delegate as much as possible.

These are my top five keys to success, burning desire, a plan, a mentor, a system and a team. If you have these five things, you will succeed against all odds.

Do Middle Aged Men Conceive More Girl Babies?

I sometimes hear from people who want help in gauging their chances or odds of conceiving the gender of their choice. Sometimes, they think they have special circumstances which might make their odds better or worse for what they are trying to achieve. One example of these special circumstances is the age of the father-to-be.

I heard from a woman who said “I just married a man who is middle aged. He already has grown children from a previous marriage. We would like to conceive and we are hoping for a girl. His previous children are boys. This is discouraging, but I have heard that the older a man is, the more likely he is to have a girl. Is this true, why or why not?”

This is not the first time I’ve been asked this question. This seems to be one of those old wives tales that has just enough scientific merit to make it seem believable. The thinking behind this goes something like this: since a man’s sperm count declines as he ages and there is another old wives tale which theorizes that a higher sperm count favors boy babies, then the lowered sperm count due to age must make a girl baby more likely by default.

So let’s break all these theories and old wives tales down. First, let’s look at the theory that a man’s sperm count declines with age. This one is considered true. However, such declines are usually very slight. In fact, I’m sure we all know older men that father children without any problems at all. It’s not at all rare. In fact, while there comes a point in a women’s older life when she can no longer have children due to her age, the same is not true of men.

But, accepting the fact that some men have a declining sperm counts with age, there is no definitive scientific basis to say for sure that a high sperm count favors boy babies. The thinking behind this is that because boy sperm don’t live for very long but are faster moving than girl sperm, you are going to have a better chance of conceiving a boy with a man who has a higher sperm count because the faster moving boy sperm will make it to the egg more quickly. But here’s what this theory doesn’t take into account. If a higher sperm count exists, there will be just as many girl sperm fighting for the egg. Sure, they are slower than the boys, but the ratio of X to Y or boy to girl is the same for men with high or low sperm. And the end result is usually a 50 / 50 chance of either gender. And, even if the high sperm count theory was true (which I’ve just argued that it isn’t,) this is not guarantee that the opposite would also be true.

Because according to this thinking, a lower sperm count means less X and Y sperm available. But as with the above example, the ratio would remain the same the same. And so the result (50 / 50 odds) should also remain the same. So my opinion is that no, an older man would still have roughly the same 50 / 50 chance of conceiving a girl or a boy as a younger man. This is true whether he has a high or low sperm count. Because nothing has changed with the ratio of those sperm. As long as he has roughly the same ratio of girl to boy producing sperm (which studies have shown is the norm in men of all ages) then (unless you make other changes) you still have roughly equal odds.

So what do I mean when I say “other changes?” Believe it or not, I mean changes to the woman or mother. The woman who wrote me would likely have more success trying to change her own PH than worrying about her husband, who could not change his ratios. Whether you get a girl or boy depends on whether an Y (boy producing) or X (girl producing) sperm chromosome fertilizes the egg. You can make an X or girl more likely by the woman having an acidic PH, the couple conceiving earlier in her cycle, and using shallow intercourse positions. These things would have more impact on conceiving a girl than the father’s age. If they wanted a boy, then the opposite would be true, (late intercourse, an alkaline PH, etc.) but the man already had boys and wanted a girl this time.

What Is Alkalete?

The buzz in the health and wellness industry for the past several decades has been the use of antioxidants to dispel free radicals in the body. The education process has been so thorough, that today, about 70% of Americans claim to ingest daily antioxidants. So what’s the new buzz in the health and wellness arena? Body Alkalization. Although not a new science, Dr. Otto Warburg won a Nobel Prize for his work on alkalinity in the 1930’s, it has been a relatively unsung hero until now.

So what is Alkalete, and what benefits could it have on your health? In this article, we will explore what Alkalete is, what possible benefits it can have on the body, and whether or not you should consume the mineral blend.

What Is Alkalete?

Alkalete is a new proprietary mineral blend that has been registered as a New Dietary Ingredient (NDI) with the FDA. It is a patented formulation of 3 simple minerals – Magnesium Hydroxide, Potassium Hydroxide, and Calcium. Although is seems like a simple formula, it is the way that the ingredients are put together that makes Alkalete unique. Through the special patented process, the hydroxides are tamed so that the body can effectively utilize the powerful alkalizing products.

This process used to happen organically through healthful vegetation. However, the depletion of these alkalizing salts has occurred related to the destruction of top soil. Alkalete allows the alkalizing minerals to be safely absorbed by the body.

Alkalete’s Possible Benefits

  • Aids in the Removal of Acidic Waste
  • Decrease body symptoms caused by inflammation
  • Aids in overall optimal Body pH Levels
  • Increases Endurance and decreases Muscle Soreness related to an active lifestyle
  • Scientifically Proven to help with Acid Indigestion
  • Increases Immune System support

Should You Consume Alkalete?

So the big question is, should you consume Alkalete yourself? Well, the truth is that 99% of Americans are acidic. We consume diets containing red meats, dairy, sugar, coffee, wine, cheese, pizza. All of the good stuff, but not necessarily good for our bodies. We also don’t get enough sleep and are over-stressed. These are a recipe for a highly acidic, disease ridden body.

Although Alkalete is not a drug and was not formulated to treat or cure disease, the truth is that people are suffering from illnesses related to acidity in their bodies. Just like the antioxidant craze, I predict that alkalinity will sweep the nation and that in the next decade most people will be consuming a product like Alkalete.

The Pursuit of Happiness Syndrome

Where did we go so wrong? I grew up in Kenya, went to school there, college and even worked there for about four years. I've never really thought of moving to America, it was not even in my realm of "Things to do before I die". That changed in 1998, when I met and married an American globe-trotting post military older guy. I began to realize I had just acquitted a coveted ticket to The Land of Opportunities.

Fast forward to the year 2000. In the Land of Opportunities, I worked fast and furiously to fit into the new culture. I started a business venture that allowed me to work with lots of people on a daily basis. Lots of Americans.

What I began to notice is that Americans are an awful unhappy lot. Do not get me wrong. I enjoyed the usual rehearsed smile, the fickle "I'm here for you any time you need me" promises and all that. But most non-westerners pick up on the privilege of it pretty fast.

My business allowed me to gather that loads of people in this country, and the West in general, self-medicate with various means to cover up – what? Food, shopping, drugs, more drugs, legal drugs, illegal drugs, plastic surgery, celebrity-worship. All that. And still, most people I come across, once I get to know them a little better, I realize they are surprisingly really happy.

So, where did we go so wrong in regard to the Pursuit of Happiness?

The Truth About Happiness

o Happiness is A Choice

I am not sure where people got the idea that happiness is something that happens to you. The truth is that nobody owes you happiness. Not the government, not your parents, not your spouse, not your kids. You can wake up every morning, recognize that all is not perfect with the world around you, and still choose to be happy. It is ALWAYS a choice. Now, of course some things make it easier for us to execute that choice. For example, being financially peaceful, being healthy etc all make it easier to choose to be happy. However, being happy is not dependent on any of these things. In fact, if you understand the Law of Attraction, then you know that being unhappy is a sure way to attract more of what you are unhappy about.

o Happiness is Your Birthright

What a shocker?

Yet, you were born with the ability to be happy, so how is it not your birthday? Have you ever seen a baby that does not know how to be happy? So, at some point in our lives, we decide we are expected to be unhappy, usually by buying into such things as the way religion guilts us into believing that we are born sinners that need repenting in order to be happy; or by observing your unhappy parents and internalizing it as the way things are supposedly to be, or by believing your friends who told you that you were no good and in fact, you were ugly. In the famous Tony Robbins style, "when would now a good time to take that mentality and dismantle it into pulp, create a hell fire, and burn it into eternal damnation"?

o True Happiness Can not Be Pursued

I too loved the Will Smith movie. It was one of the most touching movies I'd ever seen. But I think there is also a reason the movie ends at the point at which he has just "achieved happiness". Really, is anyone fooled that you can pursue happiness and "catch" it? You can pursue money, sex, expensive cars, the likes. But happiness is who you already are. You simply have to turn it on. I get amused every time I see a discussion to the tune of, "money does not buy happiness". I usually think to myself, "where do these people shop?"

Money does not buy happiness because happiness is not a commodity for sale out there. It resides within you. If you already make a ton of money, have a great partner, you work out like mad and eat super healthy, you own 6 plasma TV's ….. And you are still unhappy. How crazy is that? Here's a hint: Stop pursuing happiness and start living it. Start being it.

o The Secret to Happiness

How do you know if are truly happy? Here's a rule of thumb, if you have to ask that question, you are not. Truly happy people have discovered the greatest secret to happiness, and they live it with a magnificent obsession. That secret is: An attitude of gratitude. Being grateful means just that. It means being grateful for EVERYTHING that happens in your life. The good, the bad, the ugly. Here's why: it is all provided to serve your highest good in the long run. The fact that you are not deeply and honestly grateful of your current situation is the cause of your unhappiness. Sometimes, most times actually, it is never clear how the things that are happening right now are going to serve our highest good.

But they always do.

With much gratitude,

Kay

6 Tips to Get More Referrals From Business Christmas Cards

The holidays are the one time of year everyone thinks about sending greeting cards. This time of year is also one of the most important times of year to send cards. These tips will help you get more referrals from your cards and avoid some common mistakes.

1. First and foremost business Christmas cards tend to go on display more than any other cards you send.

It doesn’t matter if you send cards to other business professionals or to consumers we all like to display our them during the Holidays. We may put them on the office shelf, the office door, the cubicle wall, or our consumer clients will place them on the fireplace mantle, refrigerator, or book shelves.

Because our cards go on display we want to take extra special care and make them really stand out. This simple strategy is one of the easiest to ensure we get more referrals.

2. Whatever you do, don’t be boring with your business Christmas cards.

Boring store bought cards won’t ever be picked up and examined. I recommend putting extra special attention into creating a fun and unique custom Christmas card. You can use technology like Send Out Cards to make a fun card with your photos. Use a photo of the staff having fun instead of a simple logo. Human nature is that we’re attracted to photos of people, especially if we are in the photos or know the people in the photos.

If you make it boring, no one is going to pick it up and ask “Who is this from?” How many opportunities like this do you get for a referral if you send a boring store bought Holiday card?

3. Send your cards early. Don’t wait until the last minute!

What happens during the Holidays? Holiday parties! If your Christmas card is first, and it is fun and interesting, it will definitely go on display. When people come over for the Holiday party many more of them will see your card and have an opportunity to pick it up. If you send it late there may not be any room left on the shelf for your card. Not only that, but it may arrive after the Holiday parties are all done. By procrastinating and sending your card late you will have missed an opportunity for free referrals.

4. Send yourself a test card NOW.

Since we’re talking about custom business Christmas cards it is important to send yourself a test now. Don’t wait until the last minute. That way you have an opportunity to proof it and make changes before you send it to your clients. There is nothing worse than sending out 300 custom Christmas cards to clients only to realize you had an obvious misspelling or that your photos don’t print correctly.

5. You’ll have a lot more chances that your card will go on display if you use a vertical design instead of a horizontal one.

Since Christmas cards tend to go on display you want to make sure you don’t use a horizontal design. Since horizontal cards tend to fall over easily they won’t go on display as long. Additionally you can fit more vertical cards on a bookshelf or fireplace mantle so you’ll have greater chances of it being selected to go on display.

6. Don’t ask for referrals in your business Christmas cards.

If you ask for referrals in my Christmas card I know you really didn’t “care” about me. I know you’re only sending me this to try to get more referrals.

You want your clients to feel like you care about them. If you make them feel like you don’t care then they won’t trust you with referrals!

If you follow the advice outlined above you’ll be making fun and interesting Holiday cards and you will naturally get referrals from them. Just by having fun and letting your clients know you are a real person you will receive more referrals.

The Benefits of Wine on Your Health

How did wine come into being? Thousands of years ago, an unknown person must have accidently let some sweet fruit juice to ferment. May be this grape, figs or the juice of dates. This led to the fermentation of sugar present in the juice and that wine came into existence. Wine has become a common beverage and is consumed by many cultures today. In many countries people drink wine with their food, and this is one reason because why heart disease is much lower in European countries.

The idea that wine is good for health is not something new. The father of medicine, Hippocrates has written about the advantages and qualities of wine. Modern day research shows that people consuming wine daily with meals are not prone to heart diseases.

There are two benefits of wine on health. The content of alcohol in wine, irrespective of its color being red or white protects the heart and the phytochemicals from the grape skin present in the wine also protects you from heart diseases. Due to these two advantages wine is considered to be a good drink when compared to other alcoholic beverages. Whether it is alcoholic beverage or wine, controlling consumption is very essential. Too much of any drink, including wine, is not too good.

Wine is very beneficial to the heart as it contains flavonoids. Flavonoids are derived from grape skins and are phytochemicals. Red wine is made by fermenting grapes with their skins and during the process flavonoids from the skin leak into the wine. The wine gets its flavor and color by this process. Red wine has flavonoids and white wine does not because the skin of the grapes is removed while making white wine and hence the content of flavonoids in white wine is very low. Flavonoids protect the LDLs and prevent blood clots. Although in purple and red grapes flavonoids are present in large quantities, only one third of it leaks into the wine.

The Wisconsin University after a study has concluded that flavonoids present in red wine prevent the blood platelets from getting sticky and hence prevent blood clots and reduce the risk of getting a heart attack. Studies reveal that red wine is good for health provided it is consumed with meals. The amount and the time that wine is consumed are very important in how flavonoids and alcohol affect heart health. In Italy and France heart diseases are comparatively low. People start drinking wine from a very early age and drunkness is almost nonexistent as people drink moderately. People find it pleasurable to sip wine leisurely during meals.

However, if one drinks an entire bottle of wine all at once and then divides it by seven and says that he is a "moderate" drinker over the week he is missing a point here. There must be moderation all the time. Alcohol including red wine consumption comes with a certain amount of risk, so before you buy any be cautious.

Drinking regularly may damage mental function and also affect your memory. People who have more than four to five drinks a day become prone to hypertension, which may cause kidney failure, heart attacks and diseases that are related to the liver. You are more prone to accidents at work and road accidents if you have no control over the alcohol you consume.

Excessive drinking among women will increase the risk of breast cancer and drinking is often related to heart diseases. Women must talk to their doctors about cancer risks before they choose to consume alcohol on a daily basis, and they should remember to drink moderately.

The Difference Between HDL and LDL Cholesterol

There is a soft waxy substance found in fats that are in the blood stream and all of your bodies cells, it is called cholesterol. It is used to form cell membranes, hormones, and needed for other things, that’s why it is an important part of the health of your body. But too much or too little cholesterol in the body can cause health concerns. Cholesterol can not be dissolved in the blood so it is transported by lipoproteins.

There are two different kinds of lipoproteins that transport cholesterol throughout the body called Low density and high density lipoproteins. LDL cholesterol is circulated in the blood and can slowly build up plague on the walls of arteries. It can cause a clot to form and block the blood flow to the heart and cause a heart attack. If the clot blocks the blood from the brain it is a stroke.

HDL cholesterol carries about one fourth of the blood cholesterol. It mostly carries it away from the arteries and into the liver where it is removed from the body as a toxin. HDL cholesterol is better known as the good cholesterol. It is referred to as this because it seems to protect the heart.

As there are 2 different main kinds of cholesterol there is also 2 main ways to get cholesterol. The liver produced some cholesterol and food that is consumed contains cholesterol. There is food that doesn’t have cholesterol in it as well. Normally the liver makes all the cholesterol that the body is going to need. Therefore you don’t need to consume any cholesterol. Trans fats and saturated fats raise the blood cholesterol. The liver does remove some of the excess cholesterol but the body is still taking in more than it needs.

People who have high cholesterol levels need more excess cholesterol removed from the body. Getting regular exercise can actually increase HDL cholesterol in some people. It can also help control weight, high blood pressure, and diabetes. Things like power walking, jogging, and swimming are great exercise. Even things like yard work; house work, cleaning, and grocery shopping are getting exercise.

Smoking has a great affect on your body. It is one of the risk factors for heart disease. You can change or treat it though. Smoking does however lower your HDL Cholesterol levels and increases the risk for blood clots. Moderate use of alcohol has been linked with higher levels of HDL Cholesterol, but the other risk f actors of drinking still don’t make it a great preventative. It can raise blood pressure, cause obesity, stroke, and cancer.

Some of the foods that should be avoided to prevent excess cholesterol in the body are beef products, veal products, pork products, egg, egg yolk, turkey products, fish oil, fish products, lamb products, chicken products, and processed meats.

Mostly all meat products will raise cholesterol levels. So will any fast food, and junk foods.

Alternative Health Supplements has a product that will lower cholesterol levels in your body. Cholestasys will promote elimination of cholesterol from the body and reduces the level of cholesterol that the liver produces. It will balance your level of cholesterol to a healthy level and give you an increased energy level as well and a feeling of overall well being. It has no negative side effects and it safe to use.

Want a Bigger Penis? Increase Your Penis Length and Girth With This Simple Exercise

Believe me, those penis enlargement pills that you’re taking or thinking of taking will not give you any permanent gains. More likely than not, they’ll give you nothing. The product creators know that, but they also know that they can sell us anything because we’re desperate.

Actually, I was desperate before I found what works. Physical exercise for your penis works. If you’re an adult, then you’ve missed the boat for hormone or chemical based penis growth. It’s time to get physical.

I’d like to introduce you to an exercise called “jelqing” or “milking”, which gave me my first real penis size gains. I don’t think that there is a better bang-for-buck penis enlargement exercise because it is both simple and effective.

How does it work?

Well, jelqing gently forces bigger than normal amounts of blood into the penis, which stretches the elastic tissues of the penis beyond your normal erection size. Your body then adapts by growing new tissue to deal with more blood, which means that over time your penis gets bigger. In my experience, you get both length and girth increases. What I liked most was that my flaccid was mush more impressive.

How to do it?

Very simple:

* Wrap you penis in a warm cloth or rice sock for 5 minutes to warm up

* Cover your penis and the inside of your hands with a generous amount of lubricant – petroleum jelly is great, but I find that tissue oil leaves my penis looking very healthy afterward.

* Get your penis partially erect. About 80% erect is best. I’ll leave that ‘how’ up to you.

* Make an ‘OK’ sign (ring) with your thumb and forefinger, while you encircle the base of your partially erect penis. Tighten this grip just enough so that blood cannot flow out.

* Slowly (3-5 seconds) pull the grip forward until your hand reaches your penis head and immediately follow with the other hand.

* Start with 100 slow strokes on the first day and then do 200 a day for 2 weeks, after which you want to work up to 500 a day. But you’ll only workout 3 non-consecutive days a week. Your penis needs to recover and grow – don’t overdo it!

* Again do the warm wrap after the workout, or take a warm (not HOT!) shower/bath.

You’ll start to see some good gains very quickly. You’ll probably catch yourself admiring your penis after each session because of how much bigger and healthier it looks.

Jelqing is a fantastic penis exercise, but it’s just the tip of the iceberg.

Cat Training Problems? Train a Better Kitty Through Feline Communication

Cats are amazing, unique and intelligent animals. Any cat lover knows this instinctively and believes they have a wonderful connection and understanding of their kitty. It comes as a surprise to many when their adorable cat misbehaves by clawing furniture, being antisocial, refusing to use the kitty litter and so on. We ask ourselves why and wonder why normal animal training techniques do not work. While there are many reasons of all of these things one of the core concepts you need to know when you have cat training problems is how to really communicate with your feline.

Cats communicate in four ways:

Visual

The first and easiest way to communicate with you cat is to understand their visual cues. While there are more obvious cues like wagging tail when annoyed and the ears going back when scared or angry there are other more subtle cues. For instance did you know that when you make eye contact with a cat if you lower your eyes and squint slightly it is a sign of acknowledgement and affection to a cat? Or that if their whiskers are flared it means they are alert. There are many cues a cat gives to use that we need to learn and can replicate back at them and they will understand.

Vocal

The noises a cat makes also give us clues to know what they are thinking. The obvious signs are purring when happy and hissing or growling when annoyed. There are many other sounds cats make that we can learn however like the loud meow which is usually for attention, the sigh (much like a humans) when contented and the chatter which is issued usually when a cat is stalking prey they cannot get ( a bird on the other side of a window). The tone and pitch of these various sounds mean different things and being clued up to the nuances can tell you if a cat just wants attention or if it is stressed or many other things.

Touch

Cats love to be touched and petted as long as it does not become painful and petting an affectionate cat has been proven to lower blood pressure and be good for us. How a cat touches you can mean things too; when rubbing the sides of its face against you it is marking you with a scent claiming you as their own, this is a true sign of affection. If a cat lets you rub their belly it is also a sign of trust as it is their most exposed weakest area when in a fight so letting you near it is very intimate. Cats also use their bodies to trip you which may be annoying but it is an attention getting device more than a pure show of affection. Knowing how your cat uses their body to communicate and how you should hold, pet and touch your pet is of vital importance to training them.

Smell

This is something we as humans cannot really tap into. Cats have a heightened sense of smell that allows them to see more than we can in that realm. They can sense things by smell we cannot and may react to something they smell when we cannot making them seem erratic. They can also smell when we are stressed or angry by our smell (along with body language and so on) so it can work both ways. Be aware your cat can smell better than you and that this may trigger something you cannot see.

All in all if you have cat training problems you must go back to square one with cat understanding before you can move on to more complex problems like getting them to use the kitty litter or stop scratching furniture. Once you have this understanding you will see many mistakes before you make them and adjust your action for a better behaved and happier cat!

Make Your Penis Bigger Up to 9 Inches – Natural Penis Enlargement Exercises Give You Bigger

Every Guy want to make your penis bigger.Grow penis is the top concern of almost every man, no matter if he has an average 5 or 6 inches or below average 4 or 4.5 inches penis size. How to enlarge my penis naturally? There are a number of methods available in the market that helps you increase your manhood. However each expert has his own view on the benefits of each method. I suggest you to use natural penis enlargement exercise as they are proven to be the best and the results you gain are permanent.

Risks of Using Other penis Enlargement Methods:

I step by step tell you short comings of using other penis growth methods:

Temporary:

The results which you achieve by using pumps and extenders are temporary. They do not actually give a permanent growth

Costly

Penis surgery is very much costly which every one can’t afford.

Harmful!

In order to make your penis bigger the Pumps, extenders and penis enlargement pills are considered to be harmful. Pills are not approved by FDA as it is found that they have pesticides in their composition which are harmful for human body, pumps and extension devices can even screw your organ which can lead to impotence!

What To Do?

Why I advice you to use natural penis enlargement exercise, here are the some reasons:

1. Results are Permanent

2. Safest Tools

3. Cheapest of All Methods

How to make your penis bigger with Enlargement Programs

There are plenty of exercises to increase your penis size; one of them is the wake up cloth. This exercise is called warm up cloth because you need to warm up your penis with a hot cloth.

You need to have:

1. A face towel

2. Plenty of hot water

3. Daily 10 minutes of yours

Firstly, wet the towel with warm water until it is soaked and hot. Make sure it is not over heated as it might be harmful for your manhood!

Then, wrap the cloth around your penis and testicles. This may be slightly painful, but this ends quickly enough and is easy to get used to.

Make sure you keep the cloth in place for 1 minute.

After one minute again wet towel with hot water and repeat the procedure. But this time hold it for 1-2 minutes. Repeat he procedure according to your program package. Warm up exercise is also a starting part of jelq, an effective penis enlargement exercise. For further details and other exercise packages to Make your Penis Bigger.

WARNING: This program is EXTREMELY effective, and I highly recommend you stop the program for 48-72 hours if you begin to grow more than an inch in a weeks time.

Different Types Of Depression

Depression is not a small societal problem. It affects a rather large segment of our population. The word depression is a broad topic, and actually there are a variety of different type of the condition known as depression. These different types of depression are defined by different types of symptoms that are present.

The most common type of depression treated today is known as major depression. Major depression is denoted by a lack of energy by the individual, unable to get a good night's sleep, and just a general lethargic feeling or feeling blue for extended periods of time with no breaks in the mood and no apparent cause for the feelings.

For those suffering from major depression they have a tendency to stop doing those things that they normally enjoy doing. Major depression can be a condition that will not go away without proper treatment. These symptoms of major depression are usually defined as such when they persist for a period of at least two weeks without leaving. Although some people do get and stay better after a bout with major depression, many times the individual will have to do battle with these conditions several times through their lifetime.

Dysthymia is a type of depression that is not as severe as a major depression and is not as commonly discussed. People of suffer from dysthymia will often have the same symptoms of major depression just to a lesser degree. They may also only experience a select few of the symptoms that accompaniment a major depression. Due to the less pronounced symptoms a person who sufferers from dysthymia can sometimes do so for their own lives without getting treatment.

A different type of depression and a very specific type is bipolar disorder. Bipolar does not occur nearly as frequently as the other forms of depression. This type of disorder is illustrated by the afflicted individual experiencing both extreme emotional highs along with extreme emotional lows. Because of the nature of these extremes, a person suffering from bipolar disorder can have their way of life devastated. During the highs they may become overly excited, very talkative, and even spend large amounts of money. While the low side is fraught with feeling blue and unsociable. This bipolar type of condition is one that needs to be addressed in order to be control-capable.

If you suspect that someone that is close to you is experiencing any of these types of symptoms of the various depression sections, you should recommend that they consider seeking professional assistance to get them on track.

Even though depression is a mental disorder, it presents itself as very real physical symptoms and should not be taken lightly. Healthcare providers today have a variety of options to treat depression including medications if necessary.

With depression it is not just a matter of 'snapping out of it'. If symptoms persist, get some help.