What do you say when your facing the love of your life and the knot in your throat is growing larger. It is hard to swallow now and your eyes begin to burn, as you start to unravel and come apart in front of your husband. Desperately you grasp for the right things to say, anything at all but you are only left with the question “how do I get back my husband when he is cold and detached?” This is the man, that in the beginning kept you up all night just talking, the same man that was lost in you from dusk till dawn. Now he is standing in front of you but his eyes are cold and his voice is distant, your husband is so close, but yet so painfully far away.
At moments like this, your heart aches with a gut wrenching pain it feels as though the breath has been pulled from your lungs. This feeling is overwhelming you to the point that begging is now the only option. This is not necessary because although your husband is displaying a cold and heartless persona, this is an act to mislead you into thinking that he dose not care. This is when you need to remember that if you are feeling this way than it is most certain that he is feeling the same about you. The reason that your husband is looking at you with cold eyes is that he must hide his feelings.
Your husband is hiding his feelings so you will have no power over him. Then you will have no influence on his decision to leave even though he may not even want to go. You will know when he is doing this by the sound of his voice and the look in his eyes. It will be almost as if you are talking to an actor that looks like your husband. Being cold and detached is just an act that makes your husband feel that he is in control of himself. Knowing this will be a great help because the man you know as your husband is really there even though you cannot see him.
Your husband agonizingly wants your love and affection, so if he is leaving you it is because he believes that he cannot get that from you. Your husband has no hope that you will be able to give him your attention and love anymore, even though you would go through hell to give it to him. Simply show your husband that you can and still do love him. He is your best friend in the whole world, the man that stands before you is hurting vary deeply and needs a love that only you can give him. You are the woman he loves with every ounce of his being, so please do not give up on your husband because he is acting like a cold and detached child. So how do I get back my husband when he is cold and detached, just love him until he feels it.