The passing of a loved one especially of a mother is a difficult and heartbreaking experience. You question why your mother is taken away from you even if her death is expected. You will be confused and depressed because of your loss. You will grieve and healing will take time.
It is traditional for children to give eologies in funerals in order to honor their parents. Even if it may be a thorny task, you will want to involve yourself in the funeral in a way or another since since this will allow you to have a closure with the circumstance knowing that you took part in making the funeral special. A eology speech is sometimes considered as the last special gift you could gift your mother.
Your mother was a very special and influential person to you and it may really be difficult to express your feelings about her in a speech. How much she meant to you can not be put to words in just a few minutes. A way to let the audience know what and who your mother really was to describe her as a person and a mother. Talk about her personality and character. Include in your eal speech how she affected your life and how she made you who you are today. Mention the sacrifices she has done and how grateful you are for all the good things she has done for you. Let everyone know the goodness of your mother to you, to your father, and to your siblings through the eulogy speech you will be giving.